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Thursday, August 27, 2009
Recently ,I wondered , why am I facing such problems ? It seems like I'm getting all the shits and stuff .
Those whom i had MSN chats with would might know what had I am going to blog today .
Friendship .
To many of us , Friendship might be seen in many different views .
Some examples ..
1-Best friend (or close friend): a person(s) with whom someone shares extremely strong interpersonal ties with as a friend.
2-Acquaintance: a friend, but sharing of emotional ties isn't present. An example would be a coworker with whom you enjoy eating lunch, but would not look to for emotional support.
3-Soul mate: the name given to someone who is considered the ultimate, true, and eternal half of the others soul, in which the two are now and forever meant to be together.
4-Pen pal: people who have a relationship via postal correspondence. They may or may not have met each other in person and may share either love, friendship, or simply an acquaintance between each other.
5-Internet friendship: a form of friendship or romance which takes place over the Internet.
And many more.
So, what is Friendship?
Friendship is mutually cooperative and supportive behavior between two or more people.
In this sense, the term connotes a relationship which involves mutual knowledge, esteem, affection, and respect along with a degree of rendering service to friends in times of need or crisis. Friends will welcome each others company and exhibit loyalty towards each other, often to the point of altruism(the deliberate pursuit of the interests or welfare of others). Their tastes will usually be similar and may converge, and they will share enjoyable activities. They will also engage in mutually helping behavior, such as the exchange of advice and the sharing of hardship. A friend is someone who may often demonstrate reciprocating and reflective behaviors. Yet for some, the practical execution of friendship is little more than the trust that someone will not harm them.
Value that is found in friendships is often the result of a friend demonstrating the following on a consistent basis:
1)The tendency to desire what is best for the other .
2)Honesty, perhaps in situations where it may be difficult for others to speak the truth, especially in terms of pointing out the perceived faults of one's counterpart
3)Mutual understanding (Sympathy of each person for the other)
In a comparison of personal relationships, friendship is considered to be closer than association, although there is a range of degrees of intimacy in both friendships and associations. Friendship and association can be thought of as spanning across the same continuum.
After reading , have you ever wonder if your "friends" are really "friends" ?
Continue reading , those are some stuff your friends won't/should'nt do to you .
1)Remove you from their clique because you don’t meet up often enough to their expectations.
2)Remove you from their clique because they don’t like your girl or boyfriend.
3)Remove you from their clique because you decide to be the bad guy and out one of the members on his/her much gossiped about wrong doings in hope of helping him/her.
4)Remove you from their clique because they decided that you have changed and they cannot accept it.
5)Remove you from their clique.
Also ,they don’t ignore your emails and sms-es. They don’t ‘degrade’ your friendship just because you have changed. Such friends are better off as just acquaintances or even in the ignore list.
Lastly ,
Good luck to people who pose as best friends in cliques. Wake up one day and realize that the very same reasons that you have ousted someone out for is being replicated by some of you. Watch in horror as the group dwindle in numbers as you realize that the same things they do to the ‘former best friends’ can be also done to you.
People cannot prove themselves in times of peace, only in trouble when you realize who your friends really are.
Credits & modified from :
http://www.krisandro.com/2009/08/18/5-best-friends/
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/True_friends
Those whom i had MSN chats with would might know what had I am going to blog today .
Friendship .
To many of us , Friendship might be seen in many different views .
Some examples ..
1-Best friend (or close friend): a person(s) with whom someone shares extremely strong interpersonal ties with as a friend.
2-Acquaintance: a friend, but sharing of emotional ties isn't present. An example would be a coworker with whom you enjoy eating lunch, but would not look to for emotional support.
3-Soul mate: the name given to someone who is considered the ultimate, true, and eternal half of the others soul, in which the two are now and forever meant to be together.
4-Pen pal: people who have a relationship via postal correspondence. They may or may not have met each other in person and may share either love, friendship, or simply an acquaintance between each other.
5-Internet friendship: a form of friendship or romance which takes place over the Internet.
And many more.
So, what is Friendship?
Friendship is mutually cooperative and supportive behavior between two or more people.
In this sense, the term connotes a relationship which involves mutual knowledge, esteem, affection, and respect along with a degree of rendering service to friends in times of need or crisis. Friends will welcome each others company and exhibit loyalty towards each other, often to the point of altruism(the deliberate pursuit of the interests or welfare of others). Their tastes will usually be similar and may converge, and they will share enjoyable activities. They will also engage in mutually helping behavior, such as the exchange of advice and the sharing of hardship. A friend is someone who may often demonstrate reciprocating and reflective behaviors. Yet for some, the practical execution of friendship is little more than the trust that someone will not harm them.
Value that is found in friendships is often the result of a friend demonstrating the following on a consistent basis:
1)The tendency to desire what is best for the other .
2)Honesty, perhaps in situations where it may be difficult for others to speak the truth, especially in terms of pointing out the perceived faults of one's counterpart
3)Mutual understanding (Sympathy of each person for the other)
In a comparison of personal relationships, friendship is considered to be closer than association, although there is a range of degrees of intimacy in both friendships and associations. Friendship and association can be thought of as spanning across the same continuum.
After reading , have you ever wonder if your "friends" are really "friends" ?
Continue reading , those are some stuff your friends won't/should'nt do to you .
1)Remove you from their clique because you don’t meet up often enough to their expectations.
2)Remove you from their clique because they don’t like your girl or boyfriend.
3)Remove you from their clique because you decide to be the bad guy and out one of the members on his/her much gossiped about wrong doings in hope of helping him/her.
4)Remove you from their clique because they decided that you have changed and they cannot accept it.
5)Remove you from their clique.
Also ,they don’t ignore your emails and sms-es. They don’t ‘degrade’ your friendship just because you have changed. Such friends are better off as just acquaintances or even in the ignore list.
Lastly ,
Good luck to people who pose as best friends in cliques. Wake up one day and realize that the very same reasons that you have ousted someone out for is being replicated by some of you. Watch in horror as the group dwindle in numbers as you realize that the same things they do to the ‘former best friends’ can be also done to you.
People cannot prove themselves in times of peace, only in trouble when you realize who your friends really are.
Credits & modified from :
http://www.krisandro.com/2009/08/18/5-best-friends/
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/True_friends